Before my older sister died, I promised her I would live my life fully. That promise helped me find my husband.

Before my older sister died, I promised her I would live my life fully. That promise helped me find my husband.

The author, left, made a promise to her dying sister, right.Courtesy of Courtney Rentzel PhotographyWhen my sister was dying of breast cancer, she made me promise I'd live my life to the fullest.At first, I didn't follow through, but eventually I found the courage to act on my promise.I decided to move on my own to a beach town, where I met my husband.When my older sister called to let me know that the painful lump in her breast was not a clogge…