Dear Abby: Is 20 years enough time apart from my hostile ex to tolerate living in the same town again?

Dear Abby: Should I move back to my home city?

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I share a 3-year-old grandchild through our son. Until now, it hasn’t been a big problem because I live in the same city as my son’s family, but that’s about to change. My grandson is the joy of my life, and I plan to visit wherever they move after my son’s job transfer. I had been considering a move back to our hometown. Unbeknownst to me, my son has also been considering a move back there.

Dear Abby: Moving would bring me closer to my grandson — and my angry ex

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I share a 3-year-old grandchild through our son. Until now, it hasn't been a big problem because I live in the same city as my son's family, but that's about to change. My grandson is the joy of my life, and I plan to visit wherever they move after my son's job transfer. I had been considering a move back to our hometown. Unbeknownst to me, my son has also been considering a move back there.The problem for me is that…

Dear Abby: I’d like to live near my grandson, but not my awful ex-husband

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I share a 3-year-old grandchild through our son. Until now, it hasn’t been a big problem because I live in the same city as my son’s family, but that’s about to change. My grandson is the joy of my life, and I plan to visit wherever they move after my son’s job transfer. I had been considering a move back to our hometown. Unbeknownst to me, my son has also been considering a move back there.

DEAR ABBY: Grandma doesn't want ex-husband back in her life

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I share a 3-year-old grandchild through our son. Until now, it hasn't been a big problem because I live in the same city as my son's family, but that's about to change. My grandson is the joy of my life, and I plan to visit wherever they move after my son's job transfer. I had been considering a move back to our hometown. Unbeknownst to me, my son has also been considering a move back there.

Dear Abby: Torn between grandchild and avoiding hostile ex

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I share a 3-year-old grandchild through our son. Until now, it hasn’t been a big problem because I live in the same city as my son’s family, but that’s about to change. My grandson is the joy of my life, and I plan to visit wherever they move after my son’s job transfer. I had been considering a move back to our hometown. Unbeknownst to me, my son has also been considering a move back there.

Dear Abby: My hostile ex-husband threatens my relationship with my grandson

I want to move to be closer to grandson, but I don't want to be near my ex-husband.