Should I Reconcile With Someone Who’s Never Owned Their Harm?

Should I Reconcile With Someone Who’s Never Owned Their Harm?

Let’s say someone hurt you. Not in a “they forgot your birthday” kind of way, but in a “they gaslit you, lied about it and are now pretending like nothing ever happened” kind of way. And now, they’re texting. Or sliding into your DMs. Or showing up at mutual events with a sheepish smile and zero acknowledgment of what they did. Cue the Christian guilt spiral: Am I supposed to be the bigger person? Is this what forgiveness looks like? Am I being …