What does "raising children without scolding" mean? - Growing up in security

When people say that parents shouldn't scold their children, this is often misunderstood. This doesn't mean that feelings like anger, overload, annoyance, or helplessness should "simply" be suppressed, or that children can do whatever they want. Rather, it's about parents being able to use self-soothing strategies to respond appropriately – but these are often lacking. Developing these strategies not only helps in everyday life with children, bu…