Why do military couples struggle after transition?

Why do military couples struggle after transition?

The military is full of unwritten rules and the transition phase is no different. No one really tells you what happens when the PCS orders stop, when the deployment countdown clock no longer runs your life, when no one is scheduling your holidays for you. The big joke is that retirement is the finish line: the part where you finally relax, stop worrying about rank and relocation, and just be together. But if you’ve been in this world long enough…